December 20, 2022

Jane and I grew up together in Montana and married just out of high school.  We now have four married children, 24 grandchildren, and 4 great-grandchildren.

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It has become difficult to relate to our grandchildren what it was like to grow up in America in the ’50s and ’60s.   Nearly everyone we knew lived in a 1,000-square-foot house with one bathroom and maybe a garage in the alley.  I can’t recall knowing anyone who was rich enough to have two bathrooms.  Most moms were at home.  Divorce was nearly unheard of, approved by the courts only with evidence of adultery or physical abuse.

I worked in high school at a supermarket, but of course we had Sundays off because nearly everything in town was closed on Sunday, and churches were well attended.  No cable, but three TV stations that went off the air by midnight with a ritual of playing the National Anthem.  All movies were “G”-rated, and any profanity or nudity was strictly prohibited.  Schoolteachers all wore a suit and tie at school, and we had a strict dress code that required girls to wear a dress or skirt — no pants.  Many of our male teachers were veterans of WWII and were real men whom we respected.

Going to college was an option, and tuition cost was not a barrier.  The local state-supported college was $90 a quarter, and the private college was $300 a semester.  Even with teenage wages at a $1.00 an hour, it was no problem to earn enough to go to college.  Our first child, born in 1963, cost a total of $320 for doctor and hospital.  The involvement of the federal government and “Great Society” in the later ’60s changed medicine and education.

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In 1969, California became the first state to pass “no-fault divorce,” and other states quickly followed.  The divorce rate in 1964 was 0.24 percent; by the end of the 20th century, the U.S. had the sixth highest divorce rate in the world, with nearly half of all marriages ending in divorce.  In the Spokane/CDA area today, about half of all children do not live with their biological father.  The number-one cause of poverty is single-parent families.  Some statistics seem to say that the divorce rate is going down, but they also admit that many couples now live together outside marriage.

In 1962, the Supreme Court ruled in Engel v. Vitale that prayer was officially banned from schools.  This was reaffirmed by subsequent case law.  Birth control pills were approved in 1960, and laws against abortion were struck down by the Roe v. Wade decision in 1973.  This had a major effect on sexual freedom, effectively turning it into a recreational activity instead of within the bounds of marriage.

The ’60s introduced us to the first drag ball, gay community center and gay campus group.

Even under Bill Clinton in the ’90s, we had the Defense of Marriage Act.  However, with the new millennium came a doubling down on immorality and moral decline.

In the 2008 election, Barack Obama stated that marriage was between one man and one woman.  Now no Democrat — or Republican — would publicly state that!  Now we have Drag Queen Story Hour in libraries and schools.  There’s grooming of children and the effort to legalize pedophilia.  The first was the National Education Association, which has a long history of advocating extreme, sexually progressive ideology in schools, such as, for instance, advising teachers to hide transgender students’ name and pronoun changes from parents.  In November, the NEA tweeted, “Educators love their students and know better than anyone what they need to learn and thrive.”

This brings us back full circle.  How do we explain to our children and grandchildren what is important in our lives — what we have lost, and how our culture has corrupted us?